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A friend is what the heart needs all the time. Henry Van Dyke

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Last night I stayed up late playing poker with Tarot cards. I got a full house and four people died. Steven Wright

In the last few months, I’ve been using tarot cards as inspiration for my photos. So when  I made my second life Halloween inspired land… I knew that a table with tarot cards was a requirement. It has come full circle with this latest picture.
 It’s such a joy to wrap up my last series of photos up with this picture. I’m a bit of a tarot card reader. It’s something that I do for friends and family. So I wanted to take that real life interest and let that be my muse. I really love this outfit. I didn’t win this wonderful dress by candy doll at the Epiphany, but I did buy it from the marketplace. However, I did win the gorgeous wings from Candy doll’s set at the epiphany. I just had to have the dress, so I bought it. Moving right along, Zenith makes really gorgeous masks, available at Collabor88. I always get a little excited seeing a mask made by them. I know it will be stunning. When I saw this dress, I knew right away that it would pair nicely with this mask. The hair is by exile and is also available at collabor88. It’s a really great style and just down right cute. Alisha is wearing the rare hat from shadenfreude available at the Arcade. The dress and stockings are from canimal, Her hair is from doux.
Finally, a lot of the decor came from Collabor88. UnKindness created this really great furniture set to include the cabinets, books, and moon statue. The candy on the floor is from the wonderful ++half deer+…. a creator that makes the cutest things. My wallet is always handed over to this company, happily might I add. All the other items will be listed in the credits section, down below.
I know this blog post is a little short. This week has not been kind to me. Normally, I would write up a long blog post, but I need to take care of myself a bit today. But don’t you fret….. I’ll be back to semi normal in a bit.
As always, be kind to one another,
Cheers,
Violet XOXO
Credits
Me
Mask–zenith–Venetian Style Flower Mask Black–gold by 喵 仙 人 (miffyhoi.rosca)–Collabor88 October 2018
Hair–Exile –Haunted by Kavar Cleanslate–Collabor88 October 2018
Bracelets–LaGyo–Anastas Time Bangles by LaGyo (gyorgyna.larnia)–Collabor88 October 2018
Earrings–LaGyo–Anastas Symbols Earrings by LaGyo (gyorgyna.larnia)–Collabor88 October 2018
Dress–CandyDoll –Hazel Dress by BusyBee (rebeca.dembo)–The Epiphany October 2018
Wings–CandyDoll–Hazel wings bento rare by BusyBee (rebeca.dembo)–The epiphany October 2018
Alisha
Hair–Doux –Blake by Dᴀᴠɪᴅ Cᴏᴏᴘᴇʀ (dam1710)–Access October 208
Hat–Schadenfreude –Pumpkin Witch of the Forest Rare by Allegory Malaprop–Arcade October 2018
Dess–Canimal–Oh My Goth Dress by Canimal (canimal.zephyr)–arcade October 2018
Leggings–Canimal –Oh My Goth Leggings by Canimal (canimal.zephyr)–Arcade October 2018
Decor
EVE–Roots of the Luminescence tree ultra rare by Noke Yuitza–gacha item–marketplace
tall cabinet—unKindness –Celestial Nook Shelf Double Black by Katherine Cross (jamie.rozenberg)–Collabor88 October 2018
book set–unKindness –Celestial Nook Book Set 1 by Katherine Cross (jamie.rozenberg)–Collabor88 October 2018
Moon statue–unKindness–Celestial Nook Crescent Moon Gold by Katherine Cross (jamie.rozenberg)–Collabor88 October 2018
Hour glass–The Plastik–Tortura Hourglass by Vae (aikea.rieko)–previous gacha item, check marketplace
Candy on the floor–++Half Deer++–Candy clutter by Halo (halogen.magic)–Collabor88 October 2018
Frame–Floorplan–wonderfvll frame by Tegan Serin–mainstore
Broom rack–DRD–Broom Rack–by DRD (deathrowdesigns)–mainstore
sparks–{anc}–Leaping Sparks Blue by aki69
Stars—Schadenfreude –Glowing Star Field by Allegory Malaprop–mainstore
Purple candle–The Plastik–Coil Candle by Vae (aikea.rieko)–previous gacha item
Working Tarot card set—Anachron–Tarot card set by Nix Marabana–no longer available
Table–Mudhoney –Dean Table Black–by Rayvn Hynes–mainstore

The Entertainer

 

"Do one thing every day that scares you." By Eleanor Roosevelt

 

 

“Do one thing every day that scares you.” By Eleanor Roosevelt

 

As I sit here writing this blog, I’m thinking of all the things that scare people. I’m scared to do a lot of things, but I can’t let the fear win. Second life can be like that too. Sometimes doing things that scare you will give you the most satisfaction–maybe it’s taking pictures, starting a business, or as simple as talking to people. Life in general can be a bit scary. However, if we don’t do things that scare us, then we deny ourselves the opportunity to live. Second life is just like that… If you don’t try the things that scare you, then you’ll never fully live.

I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about the cost of fear. It’s a truly high price. It stops us. It denies us experiences. It’s that feeling of facing a wall, even though you have the tools to take it down. It stops that thought of being capable.

After surgery, I was scared and frightened. I began to move and again fear took over, literally stopping me from taking a step. It’s such a simple thing, yet it became the size of a mountain. It took my breathe away. Thoughts raced through my head of all the what if’s. But in the end, I took a step. It scared me, but I did. Second life has it’s own wall of fears that so many people battle. And sometimes, you just have to take a step toward whatever scares you. Taking that first step over fear is huge. I encourage people to be brave and take that first action. It may just lead you to a path that you were meant to take.

Moving along to my picture and the discussion of fear. I wanted to portray an image of dancing, having fun, and living in the face of something scary. Sometimes you have to put yourself out there, despite whatever negative feeling is stopping you. Feel the fear. Don’t let it win. Fight it. And in the end you will know more about yourself.

If you want to dance with some friendly skeletons (which is a little scary), all you have to do is stick with me for a little longer. My gorgeous outfit is from the Eliavah gacha, which is available at the epiphany. I really really rally like this outfit. So I recommend it highly. The skeletons are also available at the epiphany and they’re by consignment. The pumpkins and pictures are out at Collabor88. The pumpkins are by Aloe and the pictures are by Fancy Decor. If you want any of these items, please check out my credits down below.

credits

Head piece–LODE–Mimosa Big Crown by Chirzaka RV (chirzaka.vlodovic)–gacha
Jewelry–belly, head, and legs–Empyrean Forge by Empy (empyreanforge)–Fameshed X, October 2018
Hair-Eliavah –Divinity Hairy–by e l i a v a h ღ (eliavahazaleia)–The Epiphany October 2018
Skirt–Eliavah –enchantress Attire–by e l i a v a h ღ (eliavahazaleia)–The Epiphany October 2018
Top–Eliavah –enchantress Attire–by e l i a v a h ღ (eliavahazaleia)–The Epiphany October 2018
Fans–Eliavah –Lunar Fans–enchantress Attire–by e l i a v a h ღ (eliavahazaleia)–The Epiphany October 2018
Veil–Eliavah –Starry Veil–enchantress Attire–by e l i a v a h ღ (eliavahazaleia)–The Epiphany October 2018
Decor

Lights–Alegria–Dacing Starts Fireflies by Alegria (katanablender)–no longer available.
Pumpkins–Aloe –pumpkin Container by AlliKeys–Collabor88 October 2018
frames–Fancy Decor — Lee Leaning Art by Jake Vordun–Collabor88 October 2018
standing Skeleton–Consignment –Skull ptures Static by ValiantCo–Epiphany October 2018
Caged Skeleton–consignment –Skull ptures–caged by ValiantCo–Epiphany October 2018
Skeleton sitting on wreath—consignment–Skull ptures wreath by ValiantCo–Epiphany October 2018
Skeleton in stocks–Consignment —Skull ptures stocks by ValiantCo–Epiphany October 2018
Candles –heir–Candle cluster by ᵀᴱᴹᴾᵀᶤᶤ (temptii)–no longer available
mist–Boudoir –Mesh Mist by Precious Restless–marketplace

Piano–Zerkalo–Grand Piano by Daniel Estro (danielestro)–gacha check marketplace

 

 

Note… I took the pose before blogging it. I’ll get back to this post to include the pose at a later time. Also fans were added.

 

 

Dancing In the Moonlight

The roots of all goodness lie in the soil of appreciation for goodness. Dalai Lama

 

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The roots of all goodness lie in the soil of appreciation for goodness. Dalai Lama

In the last month, I’ve had nothing but appreciation for the people around me in both worlds. A friend who gives me more time for things inworld, when pain rules the day. A friend that remembers my birthday and does something sweet for me out of the blue inworld. She selflessly gave a gift to a stranger. A friend who dances with me virtually, which brings a smile to my face. Or even a special person that makes me laugh on the hardest of days. Those people … I may not know everything about them and it’s okay not to know everything about them. It’s the kindness in them that I see. I can see their heart and spirit in their being, for me that’s a huge deal. Healing isn’t just medications and physical therapy. Healing can be how we treat one another in times that are hard physically, emotionally, or financially. A smile and helping hand can do so much for someone. Real life brings pain and truly hard days. Grueling days are ahead of me. I will be tested, but it’s nice to log into a space where my spirit is lifted. And this is a thank you and a word of appreciation for all that you do for this stranger. I wouldn’t know what I would do with out you all.
In the spirit of appreciation, I want to share another message. I’ve heard lots of people who don’t give themselves enough credit, thinking they are important. That’s the thing about life, you are important. When you help someone in even the smallest way (opening a door for someone for example), you are important. Your spirit, laughter, friendship, kindness are all important to the world. A person doesn’t have to be bigger than life to be important. Even in a virtual space,, you’re important to others. And also, people will make mistakes, but people are not defined by their mistakes. It’s more important what you do after the mistake was made. We are all on a journey in this life and there will be speed bumps. It’s learning how to ride over them that matters most, and appreciating the people who help you get over those little road blocks.
And one more thing before diving into this month’s shopping. I heard a quote that really hit a chord with me. If you worry about all the bad things, you deny yourself the ability to enjoy all the good things. You miss out on the good that happens around you. It’s really true. Of course, there are going to be bad, awful, and horrible days, but we have to notice the good that surrounds us. For me, it’s the kindness that others have shown me in the past month. My heart would not be as full without you. So thank you to all the friends inworld who have shown me kindness, when I needed it most. ♥
Okay, now I can talk about the fun stuff. Pose Fair is still going on, so if you haven’t picked up some great poses, please head over there. A great friend and creative pose maker created this pose called Thrills pose pack. It’s by Cuca Design. The creator is a dear friend of mine. She just happens to be a really great pose creator. I hope you enjoy her poses, just as much as I do. Next we have my top from Mossu, which I love and adore. It pairs beautifully with the skirt from The Secret Store. The top and skirt are both available at Collabor88. You will have to hurry though, since there’s not much time left. Finally, my boots are a new marketplace release from Utopia@Design. I am a little obsessed with her boots. I can’t lie. I really recommend this designer. The attention to detail is fabulous. The building in the picture is by Nomad and I really really really like this rotunda. It’s probably going to stay up awhile on my land. It was the perfect addition to my creepy graveyard. Finally, lets talk hair, I absolutely love this hair by besom and it’s available at kustom9. I can’t recommend these events enough. I adore them.
I hope you enjoy the spooky events across the grid and the fantastic shopping. So bring a friend and enjoy the shopping and maybe stop by Ironwood Hills for a spooky hunt.
As always, be kind to one another.
Cheers, Violet.
credits

Hair–Besom –Teddy Bear by Coco West (kattington)–Kustom9 October 2018
Boots–Utopia@Design–Halloween– by Elisabetta Hyun–new release available on the mp
Shirt–Mossu –Amanda by Stephen (akirakiyoi)–Collabor88 October 2018
Skirt–The Secret Store –Fiona Belted Skirt by Maylee (maylee.oh)–collabor88 October 2018
Guy
Jacket–Gabriel–long jacket and open shirt by Takuya Jinn–older gacha&mp
Pants–Gabriel–Cotton pants by Takuya Jinn–older gacha and available on the mp
hat–Contraption –Standard Noble Hat by Walton F. Wainwright (faust.steamer)–mainstore

Pose–Cuca Designs–Thrills–by Cuore Capalini Carillon (cuore.capalini)–Pose Fair October 2018

Decor
Grass–{anc}–slight wildgrass by aki69–mainstore
Building–Nomad–Mystic Rotunda by Pira (piraiyah.novikov)–collabor88 October 2018
Tree–++Half Deer++–Deadwood tree–by Halo (halogen.magic)
Grave–Floorplan–Salem Memorial Headstone by Tegan Serin–fifty linden friday October 12th 2018
Bats–Florix –Bat Tempest by Dyana Rain–Salem October 2018

Pumpkin Spice and Everything Nice

 

"Gratitude is when memory is stored in the heart and not in the mind." Lionel Hampton

 

“Gratitude is when memory is stored in the heart and not in the mind.” Lionel Hampton
It’s time to talk a little bit about all of the events sweeping the grid. Eliavah made this absolutely adorable outfit. It’s available at The Season’s Story. I do not want to take it off. It’s so warm and cozy.. and cute. Well, I love it, as you can see. I highly recommend it. I think this may be my go to fall outfit. My shoes are by Utopia@Design and available at Fameshed. I paired them with a pair of heart tights from Izzie’s. Then finally, I added some fabulous hair from Tableau Vivant, which is now available at The Event (arcade). I really love all of these evens and I highly recommend a visit to each of them. If you like any of the pieces featured in the above photo, please check out my credits below.
And in closing, I want to make a quick mention of the sim that this photo was taken in. Mystic Timbers is holding a Halloween contest with some fantastic prizes. I’ve copied the notecard that’s available at the Mystic Timber’s entrance. You should definitely check it out.

A Mystical Halloween.

With halloween fast approaching we are planning a photo challenge on the Mystic Timbers sim, it will not be a competition, just an expression of work of things that go bump in the night.

At the end, a halloween party will take place, where the picture entrants will be drawn to win random prizes, so no matter what level of pictures you take, you stand the same chance as everyone who enters.

Rules : Simply pictures must be taken on the sim , and be halloween related.

DATE : 24th Sep until 24th October 2018
Draw will take place on Tuesday 30th October 12 Noon SLT. Where DJ Nitah will play, and the draw will be completed.

Title your picture – A Mystical Halloween
Including the Mystic Timbers SLURL in description

For taking part all entries will be entered into a prize draw

Flickr Group: https://www.flickr.com/groups/timbers/
Mystic Timbers: http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Wolfs%20Wood/77/166/29

I hope you check out the sim and stop by a few of these great events. As always, be kind to one another.
Cheers,
Violet XOXO
Credits
Shoes–Utopia@Design –QIANA–by Elisabetta Hyun–Fameshed October 2018
Choker–Eclat–Ari Choker by Villena (villena.swansen)–mainstore
Top/skirt–Eliavah –Athea’s Attire by e l i a v a h ღ (eliavahazaleia)–The Season Story October 2018
Hair–tableau Vivant –Witch Way [Athame] brown by M4ri1yn Magic–The Event October 2018
Tights–Izzie’s –Heart tights by Izzie Button–mainstore by Izzie Button–mainstore
Pose–Foxcity –Lucid–by Satomi Masukami–mainstoreby Satomi Masukami–mainstore

Skeleton In My Room

There are no secrets that time does not reveal. Jean Racine

 

There are no secrets that time does not reveal. Jean Racine

So this blog post is a little tongue and cheek. When I was younger, I LOVED horror movies. I always knew that if a couple in the beginning were cuddling and being all in love…. surely something wicked was going to happen to them. Most times, I was right too. So naturally, I wanted to do a picture depicting something a little funny and maybe a little sinister too.

Speaking of sinister, you will probably notice a lot of Halloween themed pictures this month. I really do enjoy Halloween. Sometimes if you can’t participate in the festivities for whatever reason in real life, second life plays a wonderful role in the celebration. So as such… I’ve been a busy bee decorating. Life can get a little hectic blogging and decorating at the same time. But I did it!

I’ve been pretty mellow inworld and keeping a little to myself. I’m still healing and sleeping a lot. There are chances of seeing me online and not really being online, as I am still recovering. So my blogs will be a little shorter than usual.

BUT, I can’t end this blog without talking about some note worthy events on the grid. I bought this fabulous bed at Fameshed, which is by DRD. I love DRD and I use them quite a bit in the month of October. They make some really awesome furniture and I can not gush about them enough. I highly recommend them for your ghoulish home. Now that wonderful skeleton is by Consignment. You can find this item at The Event which is tied to the arcade. There are a ton of gachas that are so perfect this month. I spent a bundle there and you will be seeing a few items from multiple designers. BUT that’s not all, I got this really great lingerie set by Cynful. It’s not a company that I blog often, but this set really is nice and I have not taken it off for a few days. I just love it. The lingerie set is available for purchase at this month’s round of Collabor88. My hair is by little bones and is called Umbra, and you can also find this wig at Collabor88. Finally, my pose is by CuCa Designs and you can find it at Pose Fair. It’s called bliss. I highly recommend her poses. She has some sensual poses and more risque poses, if that’s to your liking. So please check out pose fair, Fameshed, The Event, and Collabor88. All of these events have a little bit of something for everyone.

Get out there and bring your ghoulish friends to shop and remember to be kind to one another.

Cheers,

Violet XOXO

Credits

hair–Little Bones –Umbra– by Nova Faerye–Collabor88 October 2018
Lingerie–Cynful–Widowmaker Lingerie set by–Cynthia Ultsch–Collabor88 October 2018

Decor/Pose

Skeleton–Consignment –Skull in love by ValiantCo–The Event October 218
Bed–DRD –Rebecca’s Nightmare PG by Jaimy Hancroft–Fameshed October 2018
Pose–Pose Fair Designs–Bliss 05 Bento Poses by Cuore Capalini Carillon (cuore.capalini)–Pose fair October 2018

 

 

The Moon

By the pricking of my thumbs, something wicked this way comes by William Shakespeare

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By the pricking of my thumbs, something wicked this way comes by William Shakespeare
She grew into her horns, never denying her inner most demons. Now shown to the world, her darkest parts. Her eyes glazed over, all color stripped away. Her eyes almost translucent. Being fearful of all her darkness consuming her, changing her, warping her outer exterior, She felt the air leave her lungs. The room becoming smaller. Her eyes widen watching the lights flowing out of her hands. A relief shown on her face, she knew light was part of her and she was more than just darkness. The witch had not won her being. She was still the same person despite all of her light shown to the world–both light and dark. Determined, she would not the let the darkness, evil, and inner demons win, even on all hollows eve.

“I am made of both light and darkness. I am more than the darkness that resides inside my soul.” And on she fights every day with her curse.

So as some may have noticed, I sometimes include a little story with my pictures. I’ve done that here. I felt so inspired by this picture, like a story was building along with my set. So I included one.

I’m not going to make this blog, since I’m still recovering a bit from surgery. But I want to say that Hair Fair is still going on strong. It ends this Sunday though, so you’ll have to hurry to get those last wigs. My hair is by Eliavah and available at hair fair. I really do like this hair. For my lelutka head, I had to wear the hour glass version and tweak my shape, but I did get it to fit. I’m really glad too, because this hair is super hawt. I’ll be wearing it again, that’s for sure. And I highly recommend this round. Salem is also insane. I bought so so so much stuff from this latest round. The voodoo doll, candelabra, chalk board, and cauldron is also available at this round of Salem. For more details, please check out my credits down below.

In the spirit of Tarot Cards Major Arcana, I am naming this post the moon. This card in the upright position can represent fear. What’s scarier than the things that go bump in the night and Halloween is all about the night of scares. So I thought this was the most appropriate name.

Okay just one quick note, my blog posts may be a bit short due my health, but I’m still around, just a bit brief.

Anyway, as always, Be Kind To One Another,

cheers, Violet XOXO

Credits

Boots–Utopia@Design–Kora by Elisabetta Hyun–mainstore
Lights from hand–Elephante Poses_-Swan Pose (hand attachment) by MJ (melissajeanne.flores)–no longer available
Corset–DRD–Gutted Corset–By DRD (deathrowdesigns)–Uber September 25th, 2018
Hair–eliavah –Tsukuyomi Hair by e l i a v a h ღ (eliavahazaleia)—Hair Fair September 22nd, 2018 to October 7th 2018
Horns–Eliavah –Zorah Horns–by e l i a v a h ღ (eliavahazaleia)–Salem October 2018
Thong–Erratic –Cecilia by erratic (erratic.rain)–mainstore
Eyes–Buzzeri –Voodoo Eyes by Bugs Amelia Bryant (eleri.catlyn)–marketplace
Face Chain–Cubic Cherry –Beads face wrap by ĸυroι von ѕcнweeтz (kreao.kujisawa)–mainstore

Decor

Lightening–E.V.E. Root of the Luminescence Tree–Ultra Rare by Noke Yuitza–gacha
colorful stars–Schadenfreude –Glowing Stars– by Allegory Malaprop–mainstore
Witch Cabinet–DRD–Spiritualists Shoppe Portions full shelf by DRD (deathrowdesigns)–mainstore
cauldron–Kuro –Pouf Cauldron–by Luana Dawg–Salem October 2018
voodo doll–{La Baguette}–Voodoo Doll by Aristas–Salem October 2018
Mirror–Ariskea –aristocrats–old mirror by Aris (diaxm)–Salem October 2018
Candelabra—Ariskea –Aristocrats–Chandelier in rust by Aris (diaxm)–Salem October 2018
Book of shadows–DRD–Spiritualists Shoppe Spellbook Stand by DRD (deathrowdesigns)–mainstore
pumpkin–Imeka –Lovely Pumpkin by NatiWilliams–marketplace
Curtains–Pilot –Velvet Drapes garnet by Kaz Nayar–mainstore
Witch’s circle–DRD –MM1 Wiccan Pentagram by DRD (deathrowdesigns)–mainstore
Haunted books–Boudoir –Haunted books by Precious Restless–marketplace

Pose–Fashiowl–Fashiowl –by Gᴏi (goizane)–Salem October 2018

Scratches on face–Izzie’s –Claw wounds by Izzie Button–Salem October 2018