Coffee Break

 

I believe forgiveness is the best form of love in any relationship. It takes a strong person to say they’re sorry and an even stronger person to forgive. Yolanda Hadid

I have been to so many events in the last week, so I have my work cut out for me. So many great designers are putting out some really great items. I decided to jump right in and talk about everything second life shopping for June. And here we go…..

I want to talk about this whole outfit… as well as poses. My awesome poses are by the great Cuca@Designs. It’s the cuppa Joe and Jane poses. You can find this pose set at Flourish. My shirt is by the ever fabulous Eliavah. This shirt is so gorgeous. Eliavah created this beautiful top for Fameshed. My wind swept hair is none other the wonderful Exile and you can find this beautiful swept away wig at Collabor88. My shoes are from Utopia@Design, which is also featured at Fameshed. Can we talk about shoes, I really adore these heels. I’m so going to rock them all the time this summer.  Lets not forget about this really fabulous handbag by Vive Nine. I found this at their mainstore. I recently won a contest for Vive Nine, so I was going through their store and checking out a lot of their clothes and accessories. They are not a store to be missed. They have some great pieces. Check them out. I can see myself using my fab bag all around town. And if you like this gentleman’s shirt.. you have to look no further than Anthem. It’s by always fantastic Gabriel. If you would like some further info, please check my credits out down below.

My quote on forgiveness… well my sweet honey bees, forgiveness is always something that I think about often. We’ve all been on both ends of forgiveness.. giving, or receiving forgiveness. It’s like a cat scratching you, but you forgive the cat and still cuddle, because well you love them. It’s kind of like that. I think about it often because I find it interesting how it’s easy to forgive some situations easier than others. I guess it sparked something that happened to me in rl. I forgave someone for almost breaking something of mine.. that had sentimental value. I was lucky it didn’t break, but … It also made me think that even if they did break it.. I would have still forgiven them, because I care about them–but also for myself. I didn’t want to hold onto that anger. It serves no purpose to hold onto anger. Holding onto anger holds a person back, from feeling happiness in the moment. It prevents us from enjoying the good that could be happening around us. It steals our time.. our happiness.. and our moments.

Sometimes it really is just best to forgive. And then after forgive… you could just go shopping inworld… like I did 😀

Seriously, there’s some really great stuff out there and I look forward to sharing all the wonderful shopping out there. Here’s to shopping.. grab a friend and enjoy….

Be Kind To One Another,

Cheers,

Violet XOXO

Credits

Shoes–Utopia@Design–Jill by Elisabetta Hyun–Fameshed June 2019
Nails–Ascendant –Letters Nails by ᴊᴀɴᴇ.ᴅᴏᴇ (kah.melody)–Anthem June 2019
Hair–Exile –Swept Away by Kavar Cleanslate–Collabor88 June 2019
Shorts–Ison–Daphne Shorts by Harry Hyx–mainstore
Shirt–Eliavah –Ayviur blouse by by e l i a v a h ღ (eliavahazaleia)–Fameshed June 2019
Bag–Vive Nine –Straw basket bag by Sanya Bilavio–mainstore
Pose–Cuca@Design–Cuppa Jane by Cuore Capalini Carillon (cuore.capalini)–Flourish June 2019

Male
Pose–Cuca@Design–Cuppa Joe by Cuore Capalini Carillon (cuore.capalini)–Flourish June 2019
Shirt–Gabriel –Spring shirt 2019 by Takuya Jinn–Anthem June 2019
Pants–Gabriel –Cotton Pants–by Takuya Jinn–mainstore
shoes–Gabriel -Dress Shoes by Takuya Jinn–mainstore

 

 

 

 

bed and breakfast

No winter lasts forever; no spring skips its turn. Hal Borland

 

Nope, I didn’t quit. I actually met to write this blog awhile ago. I’ve had a few issues with second life crashing on me and my power has not been great this past week. I actually lost power, trying to take this picture. So seeing it done, I’m truly happy. Hopefully my luck gets a bit better with my next photo :P.

There are a lot of events in this photo, featured above. So lets begin. My dress, hair, and shoes are all from collabor88. My gorgeous dress is by Ison, which I paired with a pair of shoes by Pure Poison. And my hair is by Opale. My bed, bookshelf, and mirror come from Ariskea. The speaker in the background is by mishmish, and the picture of a person outlined is by Fancy Decor, all of these items are available from Collabor88. The curtains, flower frame, cabinet, lamp, and tray with a grapefruit, and book on the table are all available at Uber and it’s by Dust Bunny. I just love decor from Dust Bunny. I always seem to end up buying it. My vanity is from Access and it’s by Build works Decor. The cake is from an event called Spring Flair 2–and from Ariskea. The chair, bunny, rug, stool, and pink vase of flowers all come from Kalopsia, which are available at Fameshed. The tray in the background is by granola, and you can also find this item at Fameshed. The strawberries, and the bag are also available at Fameshed. Whew, I know there’s a lot of new products in this photo. I have bought quite a bit of furniture lately inworld. I can’t say no to a pretty pink flower or light airy spring time decor. Overall, these are the events that you don’t want to miss out on: bliss, fameshed, Uber, Collabor88, and Access. And now for my quote……

The quote above is a wonderful reminder that things don’t always last forever. There’s always change in life. Winter comes and goes. There’s the hope of new life and new beginnings in spring. No matter what hardship a person goes through, there’s always solace in change. And for me, I welcome spring, and change. I’m inviting the warm air of spring to grace my sim. It’s time to bring flowers into the world and let go of the cold.

I hope that you all have a wonderful spring break and be safe out there. Enjoy the blooming flowers and maybe a chocolate bunny. Happy shopping 🙂

Before I go, I want to make a quick note. I meant to make this blog post earlier, but I’ve been dealing with power outages, and storms. It’s part of the reason why this post is late. I’ve also had some issues with second life.. like most people lately. I’m hoping no further issues come along. Crossing my fingers……..

Be Kind To One Another

Cheers,

Violet

Credits

hair–Opale –Sheila Hair by Tony Mila (tonyamilavskaya)–Collabor88 April 2019
Dress–Ison–trench dress by Harry Hyx–Collabor88 April 2019
Shoes–Pure Poison–Gina by Shaleene Kenin–Collabor88 April 2019

Decor
Bed–Kalopsia –Serene’s Cali King Bed–by Isabeau Joelle Robin (isabeau.baragula)–Collabor88 April 2019
Tray with grapefruit–Dust Bunny –Sweet Dreams Morning Tray by Noel Bunny (lxlnoel)—Uber April 2019
Tray with vase with champagne–Granola –Beatrice Wooden Tray by Kimbra Iridescent–Fameshed April 2019
Strawberries and champagne–Vespertine —treat yoself set by Vespertine (amelie.knelstrom)–Fameshed April 2019
Book shelf, potted plant, and books on it–Kalopsia –Serene’s set by Isabeau Joelle Robin (isabeau.baragula)–Collabor88 April 2019
vanity–BuildWorksDecor –Vanity Set by Ediz Moonwall–Access April 2019
Flower Frame—Dust Bunny –Sweet Dreams Wall Art by Noel Bunny (lxlnoel)–Uber April 2019
Potted plan on floor–Dust bunny –Sweet Dreams Fiddle Leaf Tree by Noel Bunny (lxlnoel)–Uber April 2019
Curtains–Dust Bunny –Sweet Dreams Curtains by Noel Bunny (lxlnoel)–Uber April 2019
Lamp–Dust Bunny –Sweet Dreams Lamp by Noel Bunny (lxlnoel)–Uber April 2019
Dresser–Dust Bunny –Chest Of Drawers by Noel Bunny (lxlnoel)–Uber April 2019
Pink flowers–Ariskea –Doucy–Magnolia Flower by Seo yun (diaxm)–Fameshed April 2019
Mirror–fairest of them all—-Kalopsia –Serene’s Mirror by Isabeau Joelle Robin (isabeau.baragula)–Collabor88 April 2019
Speaker–Mishmish –Spring Garden Speaker–by Aime Takaaki–Collabor88 April 2019
Framed outline of person–Fancy Decor –Capo Figure Drawings by Jake Vordun–Collabor88 April 2019
Chair–Ariskea –Doucy Fabric Chair by Seo yun (diaxm)–Fameshed April 2019
bunny pillow–Ariskea –Doucy by Seo yun (diaxm)–Fameshed april 2019
Table–Ariskea –Doucy by Seo yun (diaxm)–Fameshed April 2019
White books–Dust Bunny–Sweet dreams books by Noel Bunny (lxlnoel)–Uber April 2019
tea mug–Kalopsia –Tea Mug by Harper Jade Robin (shawneese.offcourse)–mainstore
Cake–spring Flair 2–Roses Cake by Seo yun (diaxm)–Spring Flair 2 April 2019
Rug–Ariskea –Doucy–by Seo yun (diaxm)–Fameshed April 2019
Green stool–Ariskea –Doucy by Seo yun (diaxm)–Fameshed April 2019
Magazines–Fancy Decor –Capo Magazine stack by Jake Vordun–mainstore
Bags on the floor and box with necklace–Vespertine –Treat yoself set by Vespertine (amelie.knelstrom)–Fameshed April 2019
Pillows–Dust bunny –Dust Bunny–Dreamy outing pillow pile by Noel Bunny (lxlnoel)–Mainstore
Suitcases–Kalopsia –Hilly’s suitcase Chair by Isabeau Joelle Robin (isabeau.baragula)–mainstore
croissant–Dust Bunny –Dreamy Outing croissant sandwiches by Noel Bunny (lxlnoel)–mainstore
Pose–Rk Poses –Maya by Neva Xenga (nevacrystall)–mainstore

 

I know this is a ton of credits. I want to thank all the wonderful creators for making such beautiful creations ♥

 

Seasons Change

 

 

 

If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. Wayne Dyer

I’ve been trying to catch up with my blog posts. While catching up with my blog posts, I’ve gone through a few really tough moments in both words. It’s hard sometimes to play catch up in any world. Also, when you’re not at your strongest, it seems like the world can see that moment of weakness and play upon it. I hate to think people do that in any world, but I know people do. So in the midst of frustration over playing catch up, I found this quote.

Sometimes you’re going to fail, or be rejected. It’s really hard not to take it personally. Either you body will fail to do what it’s supposed to do. Or maybe you get rejected from a potential job, or even relationship. It’s so incredibly easy to lash out. It’s easy to get angry and upset. It may even be our first reaction to the situation. BUT, the best thing a person can do is vent… get it out of your system to someone you trust. Then, move on emotionally, look at the situation critically and analyze your actions. Can I change my behavior so this doesn’t happen again? Can I look at this situation as a learning experience?

I believe that every experience a person has can ultimately teach us something about ourselves. I’ve seen time and time again people lash out on social media, get angry, and total lose their cool. No matter what happens to you…. no matter what is said to you, no matter what is done to you, there is one thing that will always save you and that is yourself. How you react to any given situation can either doom you or can save you in the future. You get rejected. Thank them for the opportunity and walk away. No good ever comes from lashing out. I once read a Joan Rivers book and she gave me the best advice that I’ve ever received. Don’t get mad or seek revenge on someone in a business situation, because you never know when that person will be your boss one day or vice versus.

I bring all of this up because I’ve had a lot of time to think about failure and rejection. I’ve even dealt with failure and rejection. It’s never fun to deal with those issues but they are always teachable moments. Maybe we have them to humble us. It may even be the match that lights the fire. It drives us to work harder, be more, and push us. I don’t look at failure or rejection as a personal attack on me or my work. I look at it as a learning experience… a chance to improve. When you look at a situation in a different light, the situation changes. A negative can become a positive.

In the past month, I’ve had to go through a huge emotional upheaval. I think all residents can relate to going through things either in second life or real life that plagues the mind. You get this one moment or quote that makes a person stop in their tracks. I had to look at my health and not focus on the difficult road in front of me–future surgeries, physical therapy, and pain. I could focus on all that hardship and focus on it. OR I can look at how it will shape me to be a better person. I can look at everything as an opportunity to feel better. If I spend all my time focusing on the negative, I miss out enjoying all the good parts of life. So perception is everything… How our view of what happens to us or around us impacts our life and even the people around us.

So I don’t want people to fear the winds of change. I don’t want to fear change myself. Rather I’m taking the journey of change…humbled and thankful. I know this blog post is more reflection than blog, but it’s a reminder to me and maybe to others too… keep your chin up and work hard. You will get to where you want to be or destined to be, just keep trying and moving along. You WILL get there. Also if you must seek revenge, I take the advice from beyonce… work harder my friends. I have never regretted working harder…ever. And when possible, work smarter…not harder. That’s it for my wise words of wisdom. And when I say work harder, I don’t mean taking on too many commitments. I mean..take something you love to do and hone your skills. Do something that you enjoy and work hard at it. You will get personal joy and growth over time.

Finally, I’m going to talk about my blog. There are a ton of items featured by events. My shoes are from Cosmopolitan by Utopia@Design. My shirt if from Eliavah and available at the fabulous… Au Lovely event (I would not miss this event). I keep going back and buying things. Also my pants are from the ever fashionable Ison and available at one of my favorite events..Collabor88. I also bought the leaves and dog at Kustom9. The dog is from Black Bantam. The leaves were purchased at Kustom9 from [anc}. The two chairs are from Fri. and sold at Collabor88. The bunnies and squirrels with books are available at The Arcade. The door, pictures, and decor on the stool are from Collabor88. As you can see, there are many many many items from various events. Shopping is wonderful right now and there is no better way to bring in autumn than with a new do, nice clothes, and some fresh furniture. Hey, I had to get a dog in there too. I do love my animals. So if you like any of the items features in the picture above, please check out my credits.

Remember… keep your chin up and find something to smile about today.

Be kind to one another

Cheers,

Violet XOXO

Credits

hair–Entwined –Charlotte–by Bʟᴀɪʀ (vivienmarli)–Au Lovely September 2018
Blouse–Eliavah–Amaranthine Blouse by e l i a v a h ღ (eliavahazaleia)–Au Lovely September 2018
Jeans–ISON–Livie Ripped jeans by Harry Hyx–Collabor88 September 2018
Shoes–Utopia@Design–Robin by Elisabetta Hyun–Cosmopolitan September 2018
Decor
Painting on left–Madras –Adoora Welcome Autumn Frame by Karthikeyan Engineer–collabor88 September 2018
painting on right–madras –Adoora Mt. Kusatsu Shirane Frame by Karthikeyan Engineer–Collabor88 September 2018
Jars–Madras –Jar Decors by Karthikeyan Engineer–Collabor88 September 2018
Door–Madras –Adoora Welcome Door Decor by Karthikeyan Engineer–Collabor88 September 2018
Stool–Madras –Adoora Stool Decor by Karthikeyan Engineer–collabor88 September 2018
tiny bag–Madras –Adoora Door Stopper by Karthikeyan Engineer–Collabor88 September 2018
rug–tarte –Farmhouse rug by Alessandra Donato (alixxbella)–mainstore
Dog–black bantam–Best in show yorkies gacha by Stasey Oller–Kustom9 September 2018
Bunny on blanket–Birdy–Loafs Bunny dark by Dani (nina.helix)–The Arcade September 2018
Bunny in planter–++half deer++–Forest Sonata bunny planter white by Halo (halogen.magic) –The Arcade September 2018
squirrels with books and glasses–++Half Deer++–Forest Sonata books dark by Halo (halogen.magic)–The Arcade September 2018
white blanket with lights–++half deer++–Blanket Clutter–all colors by Halo (halogen.magic)–Collabor88 2018
Chairs with cushions and pillows–Fri–Pallet lounge A and B light by Darling Monday–Collabor88 September 2018
Leaves–{anc}–autumn leaves red by aki69–Kustom9 September 2018
Skybox–[ba]–Paris Penthouse–by Barnesworth Anubis–collabor88 September 2018

 

pose–foxcity—partition by Satomi Masukami–kustom9

 

Just a quick note… If you like these shoes, you will have to hurry. Cosmopolitan closes on the 22nd.

Garden Party

My happiness grows in direct proportion to my acceptance, and in inverse proportion to my expectations. Michael J. Fox

Hello my lovely readers! I’ve had such a busy week. Life never seems to slow down. It only gets quicker over time. Speaking of time, this month flew by in a flash. There have been so many events.

Before I get into the fun of shopping on the grid, I want to talk a little bit about my quote. I think the hardest thing in life is acceptance. Life never goes as anyone plans. I’ve had to accept many things over time and my expectations in life have sometimes been fulfilled–but other times…not so much. Everyone has something they expect in life and everyone has something to accept. Michael J. Fox got this quote so right–and it will leave me thinking about it–even after this post.

To be happy, for me, I have to learn to accept the things that can not be changed. I also work on not letting my expectation effect me. If you never expect anything from anyone, they will never disappoint you. This is so much easier to read than to accept. Okay, this is my  Yoda wisdom for today.

Now, for the fun stuff, I’m talking about shopping. Kustom9 has this really pretty hair from Beusy. It also comes with a detachable headband. ISON made this gorgeous dress for Collabor88’s birthday bash. LaGyo created my nose ring and mouth piece for C88’s event as well. I adore it and I’m in love. You only have a little while though, because Collabor88 will only be open a bit longer–until it’s next round on the 8th of September.

So you better hurry!

Be kind to one another and have fun 🙂

Violet XOXO

Credits

Head–Catwa–Annie by Catwa.Clip (catwa.clip)
Body–Maitreya–Lara by Onyx LeShelle
Nose ring and mouth piece–LaGyo –Desdemona set by LaGyo (gyorgyna.larnia)
Necklace–Yummy–Talisman Charms Protection by Polyester Partridge
Hair–Beusy–Sweet Alcohol–Kustom9 by Becca (colorless)
Dress–ISON–Baroque Dress–Collabor88 by Harry Hyx
Eyelashes–L’Etre –The epiphany lashes–Rare by Dᴀᴠɪᴅ Cᴏᴏᴘᴇʀ (dam1710)
Eyes–IKON –Triumph eyes by Ikon Innovia
Skin–DeeTalez–Octavia by deetalez.com (steffi.villota)