“And above all, watch with glittering eyes the whole world around you because the greatest secrets are always hidden in the most unlikely places. Those who don’t believe in magic will never find it.”

― Roald Dahl

Whew, what a week….and it’s only Monday. There’s an audible sigh coming from me with that whole first sentence. So my blog is a little late. I meant to blog. I swear. BUT, my computer had other plans–mainly an annoying update. It had the effect of making my FPS really slow. So my pictures weren’t the greatest. As a result, I waited to blog. I fixed the problem. I had help though from some really cool people inworld. Thank you by the way, you wonderful souls out there.

Okay enough about my computer drama. I know what you want……clothes. Or at least, you should. I want clothes. Has this tangent gone on long enough? I think it has. The mask in the picture comes from the Kink monthly event. A collaboration between Dura and {MK} created this wonderful mask. Then, I headed over to Uber and found this really sexy body suit and skirt. I also found this fantastic hair

The hair is so great that it deserves its own paragraph. At Uber, little bones is selling hair that comes with animations. You can FLIP your hair and place it. I absolutely love and adore this feature. I keep playing with it. I look forward to going to clubs and using the animations with my hud. It’s different and neat. I think a lot of people are going to love it.

Now on to the quote above…. I love masks. I buy them all the time. I like wearing them. I like the idea of being hidden. There’s something metaphorical too about wearing a mask in SL. There’s also a bit of magic in second life. Sure, it can be difficult at times. But there’s good, if you look for it. I thought it was fitting.

There’s a bunch of shopping events all over the grid. Grab a friend and head on over.

Be kind to one another

Violet XOXO


Mask–Dura & {MK} Collaboration01 Mask by u10 onigiri nitta (shiro0822)—(Kink Monthly)
Body Suit and skirt–David Heather —Genkai by David C. Heather (gianni.broda) (Uber)
Hair–Little Bones –Buffy by Nova Faerye (Uber)
Body–Maitreya –Lara by by Onyx LeShelle
Skin–DeeTalez–Susanna by deetalez.com (steffi.villota)

No Looking Back

No Looking Back



“It is a tough choice between ending up in the cold or ending up in a fiery blast.”
Saul Perlmutter

I thought about endings a lot lately. Maybe, it’s the end of summer or just life in general. I mean life has a lot of endings. For me, the summer ends swiftly. I enjoy warm summer days, so it’s a bit sad to see it go. This year, it will end up in the cold and not a fiery blast.

I’ve had a difficult ride this summer. Second life provided me a much needed escape. I came into this world for a bit of magic and fun. The designers help keep my imagination alive. The residents have befriended me to give me fantasy or a shoulder for support. Not every person I meet will learn of my real life. Sometimes people need this place as a time to breathe–a moment where reality is left at login. This place provided an oasis or safe spot–to gain the energy to head  back into the real world at times.

I will regain my happy. It may take some time and maybe a shot of vodka–but I will be. I apologize for my previous sad blog. I know residents have enough to contend with in their real lives. So I shall find a bright spot in the darkness and shine it into my blog. We all need light in our lives.

Now on to shopping, there’s great shopping on the grid from Collabor88 to the Arcade. You can find this dress at Collabor88. It’s by Erratic. You better hurry though. This airy summer dress won’t be there for long, so grab a friend and go shopping.

Be good to one another.

As always, happy shopping.


Head–Catwa–Annie by Catwa.Clip (catwa.clip)
Body–Maitreya –Lara by Onyx LeShelle
earrings–Aisling –Karishma by ʙʟᴀᴋᴇ ʟᴏᴠᴇʟʟ (druunah.esharham)
Ears–Mandala –Simple Ears by 菊之介王子 (kikunosuke.eel)
necklace–Yummy–Victorian Garden by Polyester Partridge
Dress–Erratic –Caroline maxi dress by erratic (erratic.rain) this month’s C88
Rings–ieQED–fanciful–3 and 7 by Victory Fist (sigifaust)
Hair–+elua+— Xanthe by Miu Edman
Eyelashes–L’Etre –Angel by Dᴀᴠɪᴅ Cᴏᴏᴘᴇʀ (dam1710)
Eyes-IKON–Triumph by Ikon Innovia
Skin–DeeTalez–Susanna by deetalez.com (steffi.villota)




Out of The Darkness

Out of The Darkness

“I find hope in the darkest of days, and focus in the brightest. I do not judge the universe.” Dalai Lama


I’ve been ignoring everything–absolutely everything. I felt like the world was a wretched place and I wanted to escape everything in sight. If I could run away from this thing called real life for awhile, I would. Then, I realized second life can be that place sometimes. So I took a moment to do just that. I’m sorry this blog post isn’t long, but I’m going through a difficult time and needed a breather.

If you see me inworld, please be kind. I don’t want to talk about it. My quote is about hope, because hope is the way out of the darkness. I’m holding tightly onto hope. Sometimes it’s the only thing that gets a person through. So residents…..no matter what you’re going through clutch on to hope.

Hoping for a better day.

Violet XOXO


Dress–Ison & Rowne –Mica Dress by Harry Hyx–collaboration and fall season preview exclusive–hurry while it lasts.

Hair–Little Bones –Callista by Nova Faerye–this month’s uber

Cigarette–Kunst–Long Cig Holder by Kunst Himmel–item was at last month’s TMD…please check back at the main store for this gacha item.




Garden Party

Garden Party

My happiness grows in direct proportion to my acceptance, and in inverse proportion to my expectations. Michael J. Fox
Hello my lovely readers! I’ve had such a busy week. Life never seems to slow down. It only gets quicker over time. Speaking of time, this month flew by in a flash. There have been so many events.
Before I get into the fun of shopping on the grid, I want to talk a little bit about my quote. I think the hardest thing in life is acceptance. Life never goes as anyone plans. I’ve had to accept many things over time and my expectations in life have sometimes been fulfilled–but other times…not so much. Everyone has something they expect in life and everyone has something to accept. Michael J. Fox got this quote so right–and it will leave me thinking about it–even after this post.
To be happy, for me, I have to learn to accept the things that can not be changed. I also work on not letting my expectation effect me. If you never expect anything from anyone, they will never disappoint you. This is so much easier to read than to accept. Okay, this is my  Yoda wisdom for today.

Now, for the fun stuff, I’m talking about shopping. Kustom9 has this really pretty hair from Beusy. It also comes with a detachable headband. ISON made this gorgeous dress for Collabor88’s birthday bash. LaGyo created my nose ring and mouth piece for C88’s event as well. I adore it and I’m in love. You only have a little while though, because Collabor88 will only be open a bit longer–until it’s next round on the 8th of September.

So you better hurry!
Be kind to one another and have fun🙂
Violet XOXO
Head–Catwa–Annie by Catwa.Clip (catwa.clip)
Body–Maitreya–Lara by Onyx LeShelle
Nose ring and mouth piece–LaGyo –Desdemona set by LaGyo (gyorgyna.larnia)
Necklace–Yummy–Talisman Charms Protection by Polyester Partridge
Hair–Beusy–Sweet Alcohol–Kustom9 by Becca (colorless)
Dress–ISON–Baroque Dress–Collabor88 by Harry Hyx
Eyelashes–L’Etre –The epiphany lashes–Rare by Dᴀᴠɪᴅ Cᴏᴏᴘᴇʀ (dam1710)
Eyes–IKON –Triumph eyes by Ikon Innovia
Skin–DeeTalez–Octavia by deetalez.com (steffi.villota)

Out Here


Out Here



“I don’t love Photoshop; I like imperfection. It doesn’t mean ugly. I love a girl with a gap between her teeth, versus perfect white veneers. Perfection is just… boring. Perfect is what’s natural or real; that is beauty.” Marc Jacobs
I’ve been looking forward to writing this blog for so many reasons. For one, it meant that I was well enough to sit at a computer without having to take breaks. Another reason, I had the best experience in SL out of the entire time here. I have so much to talk about in this post. So lets get started, shall we….
A few weeks ago, I took a journey in participating in an auction for Pulse. I won a bid and I was princess for a day in Collabor88’s royal kingdom. I had a princess chair and crown. I went with my best friend inworld. I danced. I shopped. I had a ball. I met a few people. I was shocked at their kindness towards me. I was in awe. It may not be something that ever happens to me again in second life and I’m okay with that. It was a wonderful experience. I have no complaints. I only have admiration for the owners of the event and the creators of the merchandise. I saw designers setting up and getting ready for the big day. I felt like a fly on the wall and I couldn’t believe it.
I want to discuss why I donated and why it has been such a presence in my blog lately. In my real life, the pictures of those effected, I saw as my family, friends, and loved ones-virtual and those who I hug in my real life. I felt compelled to give back in the only way that I can right now–which means a donation. I would have given that money either way. I didn’t expect anything in return, but I decided to bid. I participated to help others, but also to shine a bright spot in my life and the life of my friend. It cheered us up. After seeing the news, one can feel so sad. BUT, people were kind at C88. I think even in a virtual world the smallest kindness can go a long way.
Despite anything you ever read about in second life, I always hold out the hope that kindness can be found in a virtual world and real life. I saw that hope, when I attended the Collabor88 birthday bash. I’m so thankful that C88 has brought that happiness to many others. Thank you creators and designers for giving my friend and I a second life dream come true. Thank you for the hours you spend making beautiful things–for the rest of us to enjoy. We take it for granted sometimes, but without you, second life would not be the creative place that it is.
My dress, sunglasses, hair, and crown can all be found at this wonderful event. I have to say the owner of Commoner is a very nice person. I’m so glad to talk with him–very sweet person. And it doesn’t hurt that those glasses are fantastic! The dress is by Blueberry, and the hair is by Beusy. If you would like more information, check out my links below. Thanks!
Whew, okay …Now get out there and go to COLLABOR88. It’s really good this round.😉
Violet XOXO
Head–Catwa –Annie–by Catwa.Clip (catwa.clip)
Body–Maitreya –Lara by Onyx LeShelle
Hair–Beusy –Salacia Queen Mesh Hair (comes with crown) by Becca (colorless)
Dress–Blueberry –Scarlet by Blueberry (blueberryxx)
Glasses–Commoner –Masquerade Sunglasses by Emery Milneaux
Eyes–IKON–Triumph by Ikon Innovia
Skin–DeeTalez–Susanna by deetalez.com (steffi.villota)


Stars In Her Eyes


blog coming soon


Hello my fellow shopping addicts! This blog is a bit late. I’m really sorry about that. I have so much to talk about in this blog post. So first, let me begin by saying, I’m finally about to get that dreaded medical procedure. I know…I know. I was supposed to have it last month, but things didn’t go as planned. As of right now, everything is scheduled for next week. So I may not be around too much in the blogging world next week. I’ll need a little bit of down time to laugh at funny animations inworld and to catch up on the latest Netflixs sensation–and sleep of course. I’ll throw in some TLC and I’ll be good to go.

I tend to be a bit of a private person in all of my worlds and I don’t always share my real life struggles. For me in second life, I think it’s important to be a bit pretend. It’s not to harm people. I like to role play a happy and healthy person. Going through doctors appointments and chronic pain has been a bit of a personal struggle. However, every six months, I go in to see my surgeon and get some things done to give me quality of life. It hurts for about a week. But….I start to feel really good after the initial pain of everything. As a result of the wait, my presence online has been a bit touch and go. I’ll log on and go do something as simple as getting water–then boom, I’m asleep on the couch. Please forgive me, if I step away and seem to go afk.

The reason that I decided to share some of my real life is because of the Hair Fair. Before ever getting hurt, I never knew the feeling of being stared at for something out of my control. Then one day, I got hurt. It changed my entire life. As a result of that injury, I dealt with stares in public. I knew that people wanted to know what was wrong. I’m young, but at times I needed assistance walking–or even a chair to help get around. I deal with social anxiety and I struggled with those stares. Kids may go through those same emotions, when feeling a bit different from everyone.

You can help a child avoid some of the stares and lessen social anxiety by purchasing hair at the Hair Fair. It supports wigs for kids. You give children more than just a wig, when you buy that awesome hair. You give them a moment without a stare or maybe a moment free of social anxiety. I know, because I speak from experience. I can relate.

This event has become one of my favorites. I love it for everything it does. The designers come together and make these wonderful creations. I applaud them for contributing to a cause and making pretty mesh things for residents to wear. You get to help others and look gorgeous, while doing it.

Despite the pain of it all, I found solace in shopping on the grid this past month. As you can imagine, shopping in sl is so important to me. It boosts my morale. I smile. I get excited. I genuinely look forward to events. I can shop and walk for a really long time, if I want to! It makes me happy, even after I log off. Speaking of all those pretty things I buy…..

Let me take a moment to discuss all of the wonderful items in my picture. The hair featured above is from LeLutka at the Hair fair. My shorts, jacket, and boots can be found at the epiphany from Zenith. The fabulous tongue with a heart is at this month’s latest round at Uber by [CX]. Speaking of [CX], I had a moment to thank the creator for making this wonderful tongue. He truly cares about his customers.

I’ve had a tough time in my real life lately with pain, but on the grid has been a wonderful experience. It’s really hard for me to open up and talk about the impact of health issues. I would rather role play a scene at a beach, a bike ride, or have a social gathering with a ton of laughter–or a rp that makes me feel hot and sexy (not always easy to feel that way, when you hurt). All of those little sl moments help me get through those really tough parts.

You never know how your role play may help get someone through their rl day. So thank you to all of my wonderful friends for being a support system. Thank you designers for giving this girl a moment to just be kind of normal and healthy.

Be kind to one another!


Violet XOXO


Head–Catwa–Annie by Catwa.Clip (catwa.clip)
Body–Maitreya –Lara by Onyx LeShelle
Hair–LeLutka –HF01 by Thora Charron–hair fair 2016
Shorts, jacket–Zenith–Criminal Police by 喵 仙 人 (miffyhoi.rosca)
Boots–Zenith— Criminal Police by 喵 仙 人 (miffyhoi.rosca)
Eyelashes–L’Etre –Angel by Dᴀᴠɪᴅ Cᴏᴏᴘᴇʀ (dam1710)
Claws–[CX]–Canidae Claws by Cᴇʀʙᴇʀᴜs (kamayari)
Tongue–[CX]–Melted Heart by Cᴇʀʙᴇʀᴜs (kamayari)
Eyes–IKON–Triumph by Ikon Innovia
Skin–DeeTalez–Savannah by by deetalez.com (steffi.villota)



Wild Things

blog coming soon


“Intellectual passion drives out sensuality.” Leonardo da Vinci

I have been one busy girl on the grid. There’s a ton of really great events out there. So I may end up doing a few blog posts more than my usual–to justify all those wonderful purchases. Designers, I tip my hat to you. There’s a ton of really great items. My inworld shopping experience definitely helped me fight the summer time blues.If you’re feeling a bit blue, I highly recommend retail therapy.

Okay, I’m going to start off with Romp. Can we talk about the amount of merchandise? I was so incredibly happy that it covers two sims. There’s a big variety of items out there. I am in awe. I shamelessly made a few purchases. In particular, I bought this lingerie set from Violent Seduction. It’s called Aphrodite, which is available in many different hues.

I also found this pose from An Lar poses. I use their poses from time to time. I adore it. Jessie is the name of the pose set. You can also find it at the event. I’m always awful with mentioning my poses in my blog. However, I found this at the same venue, so I had to mention it.

Now, we should discuss that wonderful naughty mask. Right away, I knew that it would go well with a previous gacha item from Stockholm and Lima. This lace up bunny mask was hiding in my virtual closet, but I dusted it off. Sometimes you buy something and forget to make an outfit with it. Then poof, you find an outfit at event, which goes with it perfectly. I am very guilty of doing this many times. I put it on and snapped a pick in my room. As they say, the rest is history. Just a side note, the bunny mask may be available at the main store. I included the link, but it may not be available. I purchased it awhile ago.Okay my lovely blog followers, I’m off to make some outfits……

For my next blog, I’m going to talk about Epiphany, and the oh so coveted Hair Fair of 2016. It’s hair for a cause. But that’s all for another time…….

So grab someone sexy and head over to Romp….so you can have a romp in the hay.

As always, be kind to one another.


Violet XOXO

Body–Maitreya –Lara by Onyx LeShelle
Head mask–Stockholm&Lima–The Bunny Hood–Gacha by ѕуяυρ ωαη кєησвι (surrealia.anatine)
Bra, Panties, Suspenders–Violent Seduction –Aphrodite–By Iki (iki.akiri)
Nail Polish–Deesses –Purity–by ::Nattie:: (nataliewells)
Pose–An Lar –Jessie–by Kat (katya.valeska)